A mother, dear to us, and a father, and a brother, and lots of other relatives have lost a loved one. Point being, Matt is gone from those of us that knew him and loved him with all of our hearts. Can you honestly say that you have never driven under the influence? If so, chances are you are lying and "the truth is not in you". Yes I am the one that Matt referred to as his "other Mother". Not that it really matters, but he was a wonderful person that would give you the shirt off his back and would always be there for you no matter what the circumstances were. How many people can you say that about. Smear him all you want I can only say that I am sorry that you did not have the opportunity to know what a wonderful person he was, and how very much we will all miss him? Again, please keep his family, especially his mom in your every prayer.