I smoke but I smoke at home, in my car and when I go out to eat I chose a restaurant which has a smoking section. I try to be respectful. One thing I do agree with you about is all these screaming and crying kids. When I go out to eat and pay for a nice meal I don't want to listen to your screaming meanies. Leave them at home with a babysitter or eat at home. When I go to the grocery store I don't want to hear your kids screaming and crying. Leave them at home with a babysitter, your Mother, your Mother in law, your best friend or who ever but I don't want to listen to them.