All a restrianing order is, is a piece of paper. If anyone thinks that a restraining order is going to protect them then they need to look at the statistics. Sometimes we just have to take matters into our own hands. I live a block away from where this poor unfortunate lady was gunned down. My neighborhood was saturated with officers from about 5:15 this morning until about 7:30. We only have so many officers so they cant sit out side of peoples houses trying to protect them form idiots that can control their tempers. Buy a gun and holster it. If need be let the bullets fly.