I am so sorry for your loss. My neice is Tarikas cousin - her father & Tarika were 1st cousins. Just last week my sons cousin (on his fathers side) did the same thing to his girlfriend here in VA so I do deeply sympathize. I pray that you and your daughter as well as Tarikas child are able to get past this horrendous situation and live full, happy lives. May God protect and bless you as you heal. Just dieregaurd all the negative comments these ignorant people make and have peace in knowing they are ignorant! I wish you the very best in the worst of times.