I have never had the experience of scolding my son on his attire. The only reason I can think I would ever say "you're not wearing THAT to school" is if it weren't weather appropriate. What do you have hanging in your kid's closet, anyway? Rags and halloween costumes? It is YOUR job to keep your children's clothing clean and in good repair. What was he doing? Mixing plaids and florals. Sheez lady, lighten up.