It has everything to do with respecting the men and women who are out laying their lives on the line so that you and your three kids can live in a free society. What you evidently don't understand is that our service men and women don't view being in the military as a "problem." They're all volunteers. They're proud of what they do, and they do it so that you don't have to. They don't ask for anything but a little respect, something you obviously can't offer them. So you just continue that oh-so-difficult job of paying rent and figuring out how to keep those lights on... ...a man has to know his limitations.